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Posted by whbjr (???) star about me on Aug-21-00 at 00:00:00 PDTAuctions
Appropriate and Inappropriate Postings

There are actually very few chat board guidelines and rules imposed by eBay, and they're stated at the top of the board:

  • We provide this discussion board for collectors, experts and friends to chat with each other.
    This does not mean that all postings must be about comics - far from it! We enjoy and encourage a wide range of topics! Think of it as a party being held at a store or convention: we're all here because we like comics, but there's a lot more to our lives than one subject.

  • No business please!
    This rule has been interpreted various ways by various people, including eBay employees! Strictly interpreted, it means that you cannot advertise any sales, whether they are on eBay or elsewhere, and whether or not you're the seller. Few people take it that strictly, but the general consensus is that if all you have to say is "Bid on my auctions!" then you're not welcome on any of eBay's boards. Again, think of the board as a social gathering: it's reasonable to say "Wow! Look at the latest bid on my Spawn #1!" or "Would someone help me with the wording (or images, or HTML) on my Detective #27?" But nobody likes to go to a party, only to have someone thrust a sales flyer in their face.

  • "You are responsible for your own words. Please consider your message carefully before submitting it."
    A good question to ask yourself is, "If someone reads my message the wrong way, how will they interpret it?" Will they think your kind words are insulting? Will they think you're arguing, when you're actually just joking? Remember: writing is not the same as speaking, and nobody can see the expression on your face when you post your message!

Occasionally, people get confused by this notice from eBay when they post an item for sale:

"To increase traffic to your listing, you can post to appropriate newsgroups, listing the above URL."
eBay's chat boards are not newsgroups! This message is referring to the Usenet; if you're selling comics, the newsgroup rec.arts.comics.marketplace is the right place to post messages about your auctions - not the chat board!


There are other guidelines we like to follow, most of which are considered standard "netiquette":

  • Stay and chat!
    Don't post-and-run - see what others have to say! You might be surprised - someone might respond to your posting with an interesting remark, or agree with your comments, or say something amusing. Take a look!

  • Read before posting.
    Sometimes it's hard to "catch up" with all the messages, and to keep track of all the people posting, but it's worth it. Take a minute, see what people have said (especially in the last half-hour or so), then add your comments.

  • Chat with others.
    When the board is active, you might try to introduce a new topic, without getting any response from the crowd. Before getting upset, think for a minute - Is everyone too involved in the current topic to start a new one? Or is your topic not of general interest? Are you presenting your ideas in a way that will get others interested? As eBay says, "please consider your message carefully before submitting it."

  • Share the board.
    Some times you may be the only one posting, especially in the middle of the night. Don't take this as a signal for you to start babbling! Eventually, a crowd will gather and see your words, and look upon them with scorn - "So many postings, so little to say..." Also, it's worth remembering that eBay's chat boards only hold 200 messages, so each time you add a new one, the oldest one is lost. A good rule of thumb is to limit yourself to no more than three postings in a row, then give someone else a turn. If nobody responds, wait an hour or two - someone will eventually show up!
Win Bent (whbjr), Jan 2000

eBay's Board Usage Policy

Posted by akashoeman (???) star about me on Aug-21-00 at 00:00:00 PDTAuctions
The Trouble With Images

Sure, we all love to show off our comic books, and enjoy seeing the latest acquisitions of other boarders, but the posting of images to the board has its pitfalls, too. Here are a few common sense guidelines for you to consider:

  1. Try not to post any image larger than 100K (50K or less is optimal). Anything larger than that bogs down less-powerful systems and can literally make it impossible for some people to load the board. This is definitely a case where less is more.
  2. Don't "wallpaper" the board. The board's simple white background seems to bother some people, who feel the need to post image after image to break up the monotony. Again, this can slow the board down considerably for others, and violates the basic tenet "share the board".
  3. Please keep animated or humorous GIFs to a minimum. Not only are they another slow load culprit, but nine times out of ten they aren't of general interest. Again, think "share the board". Is what you're posting amusing to all, or merely amusing to you?
  4. Don't post images of items you have listed for auction. Not only can this be interpreted as a violation of the No business please! rule set forth by eBay, but when the items in question are glass canisters or Beanie Babies, they have no place on a Comics Board.
Posted by jsoutha1 (??) star about me on Aug-21-00 at 00:00:00 PDTAuctions
Tips for Avoiding and Ending Conflict

For this opening part, I want to go over some things we all know (but often forget):

  1. It is very difficult for a human being to walk away from a conflict that is not life or death. In this case, the flight part of the fight/flight response becomes less attractive as there is no threat to the life of the organism.
  2. We ALL like to be right. If we think we are, the tendency is to argue until we are blue in the face to prove the “wrongness” of our adversary.
  3. In cyberspace, the message medium tends to mask the fact that there is a human being behind each and every message.
Following are 3 possible responses to conflict situations:

  1. Stay and argue until the argument turns personal, lines are drawn, sides are taken, and damage is done.
  2. Leave the field with no comment.
  3. Leave the field expressing dismay that things escalated as they did and accepting your role, thus cooling things down and making any further negative comment an unprovoked attack.
I think you can see which of the 3 I hold as a good solution (yes, number 3). I hold this as an ideal when I get involved in a situation. Otherwise, I try to avoid creating conflict situations.


Here are some tips on how to short circuit a conflict:

  • Do NOT type out an immediate response to every comment you see as negative. Think about it for a bit. Is there another way to interpret this that is not negative? Is this person someone who usually says provocative things? Can I let this pass, write the person an e-mail asking clarification and be comfortable with that? Try using the 10 second deep breath rule: Deep breathe for 10 seconds while trying to think of other interpretations. If you can’t come up with anything more positive, you may have been insulted (tip... if you think you’ve been insulted or attacked, it is justification for asking for PUBLIC clarification and/or apology, not to attack back). On the other side, if you post something that you then see as insulting, make a clarifying statement and/or apology BEFORE anyone else responds, if possible.
  • Try to see actions in a larger context. Could what I’m about to say/do cause problems for anyone? If it might, ask for the board’s opinion, or don’t do it. If you are negatively affected by something someone does, use the 10 second rule and ask yourself if it may be ignorance that is causing the problem. Write the person causing a problem DIRECTLY. 99 out of 100 people will stop doing something if people politely ask them to stop.
  • Work on eliminating absolutes from your vocabulary. The situations are vanishingly rare where an absolute statement can truly apply. No person ALWAYS does something. No person is solely out to ruin your day or life.
  • If you are having a bad day, it may not be the best time to come to the board. Yes, the Comics Board is a caring support group, in most cases, and will express sympathy, BUT it is also a place where tempers can flare more easily due to the anonymity of the medium.
  • Use your common sense at all times. Save the blasts for that very small portion of humanity that truly deserves it.
Remember emoticons! ;^)

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